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Never Say You Can’t Survive: How to Get Through Hard Times by Making Up Stories

Name: Never Say You Can’t Survive: How to Get Through Hard Times by Making Up Stories
Rating: 4.21 (1097 reviews)
Author: Charlie Jane Anders

Charlie Jane Anders August 17, 2021

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Things are scary right now. We’re all being swept along by a tidal wave of history, and it’s easy to feel helpless. But we’re not helpless: we have minds, and imaginations, and the ability to visualize other worlds and valiant struggles. And writing can be an act of resistance that reminds us that other futures and other ways of living are possible.

Full of memoir, personal anecdote, and insight about how to flourish during the present emergency, Never Say You Can’t Survive is the perfect manual for creativity in unprecedented times.

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