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Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

Name: Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Rating: 4.15 (140389 reviews)
Author: Cheryl Strayed

Cheryl Strayed July 10, 2012

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Life can be hard: your lover cheats on you; you lose a family member; you can’t pay the bills – and it can be great: you’ve had the hottest sex of your life; you get that plum job; you muster the courage to write your novel. Sugar – the once-anonymous online columnist at The Rumpus, now revealed as Cheryl Strayed, author of the bestselling memoir Wild – is the person thousands turn to for advice.
Tiny Beautiful Things brings the best of Dear Sugar in one place and includes never-before-published columns and a new introduction by Steve Almond. Rich with humor, insight, compassion – and absolute honesty – this book is a balm for everything life throws our way.

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